Babe in total control of herself/her life, right?
Beautiful. Intelligent. Talented. Cute. Honest.
This acronym has floated around for some time now. I suppose it's in an effort to turn a patriarchal insult into a positive empowered state of being. No longer am I less than, a carrier for a vagina which requires all that pedantic foreplay, but desirable and not at all vapid, ignorant or hysterical. This woman has skills, thoughts, talents and brains. I take your profane word, sir, and I shove it back into your big fat hairy entitled male face.
Take that! It's my word now.
Except, my sisters, which one of you decided it was a good idea to own this word to begin with?
Which one of you decided it was okay to be bitchy?
See, I get being feminine and enjoying our female bodies and our own sexualities. I get wanting to be recognized for our abilities and being considered equal for our works and ideas. I get that women want to get over the hurdle of our sinful female ways, like showing our ankles and venturing beyond the kitchen, but is this a label we really need to embrace? Is this how we want to portray ourselves as human beings with value? Bitch?
Behaving poorly is a trait that does not need tribute, and that's exactly what the word bitch says about you, no matter how much of it's frown you turn upside down. It's an insult comeback fail.
I am so tired of seeing grown people, in general, behave like whiny self interested tantrummy toddlers.
This is not classy. It's not beautiful or cute.
It has no dignity.
It displays no integrity.
What's worse is that the word "bitch" is no longer enough of an insult because we've gone ahead and dumbed it down. Instead of a comparison to an un-spayed female dog we've moved onto a spectacularly crude four letter word for our vaginas that some of us are also claiming as our own.
Personally, I'd be embarrassed to be acting bitchy or to claim I'm a bitch of any sort.
Don't get me wrong here. There are times and places in our language where it's perfectly acceptable to express ourselves with colloquial connotative speech. Words are not off limits. The power of words should be used. Shouted. Penned on rest stop walls with a toll free number.
It's just that when you try to take back your power in this way it just looks silly and doesn't do a whole lot to accomplish that goal.
Take my advice and...
There are better ways to go about it.
Tuesday, September 06, 2011
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